You were never crazy.
You were conditioned to doubt yourself.
To audit your emotions and soften your truth.
To survive where you should have thrived.
I don't believe women are 'difficult,' 'too emotional,' or 'asking for too much.'
I believe they’ve been silenced. Hardened.
Handed the blame.
And sold self-help as a solution to the dysfunction of others.
But self-help couldn’t reach the part of you that never needed fixing.
Survival isn't living.
And healing isn’t the same as remembering who you are.
You didn't come here to heal.
You came to remember the woman you were before you learned to shrink.
This is where the mask slips.
Where the rage has permission to rise.
Where the silence finally breaks.
You’ve been keeping the peace.
But really?
It’s self-abandonment dressed as maturity.
It's silence sold as strength.
Dimming your light for scraps of stability.
You call it being easygoing.
Or maybe just low-maintenance.
Understanding.
Easy to love.
But underneath—
You’ve been shrinking,
hoping to be chosen.
Trading your truth for calm.
Editing your voice to feel “safe.”
Calling exhaustion resilience.
Calling disappearance love.
You haven’t been healing.
You’ve been hiding.
You speak truths most others avoid.
You've always been
incredibly self-aware.
And you hold a moral compass sharper than most therapists.
Still, you’ve explained yourself to men who didn’t deserve a word.
You’ve tolerated disrespect disguised as
emotional incompetence—
manipulation dressed in charm.
You’ve shrunk your fire to avoid being called “too much.”
And now?
Something in you is done.
Something in you knows.
Knows this was never love.
Knows you’ve been disappearing.
Knows it’s time.
You don’t need fixing.
You don’t need polishing.
You don’t need performance.
You need the truth.
And a return to who you were
before the world told you to shrink.
SAVAGE isn’t a healing program.
It’s the reckoning before rebirth.
This is the part before the breakthrough.
You will not be fixed here.
You won’t get a transformation plan.
You won’t become your #bestself.
But you will see clearly.
You will name what happened.
You will begin to hold yourself
like you never have before—
because you’ll finally see yourself
like you never have before.
Savage doesn’t hand you a script.
It hands you a mirror.
Not to shame you, but to finally show you
what you already knew deep down.
This is the unraveling.
The part you've spent years running from.
I didn't recognize the woman I'd become...
Because she'd been rewritten.
I used to believe I was the problem.
I tried to be better. Softer. More agreeable—
anything to make the relationship work.
On the surface, I pushed back.
Tried to prove him wrong.
Tried to explain.
Tried to make him see the harm.
But underneath—
I believed every word.
Every look.
Every silence.
Every time he said “you’re crazy.”
Every time he sighed and looked away.
Every time he made me feel like I was ruining everything...
just by asking for more.
I believed wanting more made me ungrateful.
That needing rest made me weak.
That asking for peace made me selfish.
I tried to heal myself into worthiness.
Gardening, podcasts, clean eating, certifications, hustle.
All to prove I deserved to exist.
I learned to audit myself in real time.
To soften my tone.
To shrink the ask.
When a therapist named my relationship as abusive—
I almost walked out.
Because by then…
I was gaslighting myself better than he ever could.
This kind of damage doesn’t scream.
It doesn’t leave bruises.
It leaves you erasing yourself so slowly,
you forget what wholeness even feels like.
You think you’re just tired.
Just sensitive.
Just not healed enough yet.
You didn’t wake up doubting yourself.
You were taught to.
Taught to apologize before you spoke.
Taught to keep the peace while your insides roared.
Taught to see exhaustion as strength.
Your intuition as unstable.
Your boundaries as betrayal.
No one can see it —
but something in you is breaking.
And the worst part?
You can’t explain why.
You stop talking about what excites you.
You recoil when you speak too confidently.
You edit yourself mid-sentence.
You apologize out of habit.
You second-guess your tone.
Your memory.
Your presence.
And over time,
that voice becomes your own.
You were never the problem.
You were surviving in a system that demanded your compliance.
This is bigger than him.
It’s not just the relationship.
It’s your family. His family. The well-meaning ones.
The ones who remind you how hard he works.
That “all relationships take sacrifice.”
That you’re just being dramatic. Too sensitive.
And maybe you’ve started to believe them.
Because when harm doesn’t leave marks,
it’s hard to prove it happened.
Even harder when everyone else says, “You’re lucky.”
But the truth is:
You’ve been alone the whole time.
And he isn’t the beginning.
He’s the echo.
You’ve always known. You just needed someone to say it.
This didn’t start with him.
You were fluent in self-abandonment long before he walked in.
You learned to earn love by disappearing.
To turn “no” into apology.
To hide your needs behind gratitude.
To wear resilience like armor.
Maybe it was:
A family where love came with conditions.
A childhood where you were “too much.”
A school that demanded compliance over curiosity
A job that rewarded burnout.
A church that made silence a virtue.
A culture that calls obedience maturity.
So when love looked like disappearance?
You didn’t question it.
You adapted.
Because deep down, you already knew the script.
Now, you’re standing in a life that doesn’t feel like yours.
But something in you is stirring.
A quiet rage.
A flicker of memory.
A knowing you can’t un-feel.
You may not know who you are yet —
But you know this isn’t it.
And you know…
It’s time.
I believe you were never the problem.
I believe you’ve been carrying work that was never yours.
SAVAGE exists because I needed that mirror, too.
This isn't the work they want you to do.
Most programs want you to rise.
SAVAGE dares you to descend.
They want your breakthrough.
SAVAGE awakens your reckoning.
They want you polished. Palatable.
SAVAGE meets you raw.
Unfiltered. Unashamed.
They want your growth.
SAVAGE wants your truth.
This isn’t about becoming your “best self.”
It’s about meeting the version of you who was never allowed to exist.
This is not ascension.
This is grief. Rage. Exhumation.
This is the scream you’ve been swallowing for years.
SAVAGE doesn’t want your performance.
It awakens your clarity.
Not to exploit—but to finally name it.
Who This Is Really For
Not for the ones still pretending.
Not for the ones chasing healing like a status symbol.
Not for the ones bypassing their pain with positive vibes.
SAVAGE isn’t for the perfectly poised, the performatively positive, or the spiritually bypassing.
It's for the woman still inside the storm.
Still questioning herself.
Still walking on eggshells.
Still wondering why the ache won’t leave.
But knows spiritual bypassing was never going to save her.
It’s also for the woman who walked away.
Set the boundary.
Cut the cord.
And still can’t stop replaying it.
Still can’t stop questioning if it was “that bad.”
Still haunted by the version of herself who stayed too long.
Still walking around in someone else’s body.
She still doesn’t feel like herself.
Still hasn’t stopped surviving.
This is for the woman afraid to face her shadow —
and bold enough to do it anyway.
This is for the woman who doesn’t need gentle.
She needs real.
A place where her grief can scream.
Where her anger isn’t filtered.
Where her fear doesn’t make her unworthy.
This is for the woman done performing her healing.
Done trying to transcend her trauma.
Done waiting to be “ready.”
It’s for the woman willing to go into the dark — without needing a guaranteed way out.
Not because she’s fearless.
But because she’s done pretending she’s fine.
She doesn’t need a plastered smile.
She needs the truth.
Why I Created SAVAGE
I’ve walked through it all —
Nervous system hell.
Love that felt like self-abandonment.
The ache and illusion of over-functioning.
I chased a Psychology degree and stacked certifications in everything from personal training and nutrition to nervous system work and high-level coaching...
Trying to fix what I thought was broken.
What I finally realized?
Nothing in me was broken.
But everything had been buried. Forgotten. Silenced.
So deep I had to create my own path back.
SAVAGE was built to reclaim it all —
The fire. The softness. The voice. The truth.
Inside the Unraveling:
Unfiltered Lessons
Raw, honest modules that say what most programs won’t — naming what you’ve always felt but couldn’t put into words.
Ritual Writing Prompts
Not reflection — excavation. These are designed to unearth what’s been buried, not just “journal your thoughts.”
Somatic Invitations
Gentle body-based practices to help truth settle in your body — not just in your head.
Audio Anchors
Embodied audio experiences to move through grief, rage, stillness, or clarity — while walking, crying, cleaning, or resting.
Self-Paced Format
No timeline. No finish line. Just sacred, private access — to move at your own rhythm.
Exclusive Future Access
SAVAGE is just the beginning.
You’ll receive early invites, private offers, and discounts for deeper work — only for those who enter here.
Not coaching.
Not mindset work.
Not another overpriced “transformational” retreat.
This is descent. This is confrontation.
This is where the silence breaks.
No timelines.
No checklist.
No $2,000 price tag.
Just one sacred, no-bullshit invitation.
$35. Yours forever.
You already know if this is for you.
No launch window.
No early-bird bonuses.
No countdown clock pressuring your pain into urgency.
There is only this moment.
Just you. Your body.
Your knowing.
And the decision to finally stop performing your healing.
You’ve read too many books.
You’ve waited for permission too many times.
You’ve made yourself palatable.
Understandable.
Forgivable.
You’ve tried everything but this.
SAVAGE is not your next step.
It’s the pause.
The shift.
The return to yourself.
This isn’t the part where you fix it.
This is the part where you see it.
SAVAGE is self-paced. Private. Sacred.
Your reckoning begins for $35.
Come get your fire back.
They tell you healing means becoming your ‘best self.’
SAVAGE asks: What did you have to abandon to survive?
What Women are Saying
I kept asking myself why I still felt broken when I had done all the work. Like... I left the relationship, I journaled, I went to therapy, I read all the books. But it still felt like I was stuck. This course was the first thing that didn’t make me feel like I had to earn my healing by being graceful about it. It gave me permission to feel messy and mad and not need to explain it to anyone.
Taylor S.
I wish I had found this before spending way too much money on life coaches who couldn’t even scratch the surface of what I was carrying. They didn’t mean to, but they made me feel even more broken. SAVAGE gave me something back I didn’t even know I was missing.
Anna H.
My god… if someone had just said these things to me five years ago!! I wouldn’t have wasted so much time blaming myself and trying to ‘fix’ myself. I honestly didn’t have high hopes for this, but it made a huge difference in how I feel. I can’t wait for the other courses to open up!!!
Morgan T.
What didn't break me, buried me.
SAVAGE is the excavation.
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